Life Skills-a British Council project: Activity 4: Who would you like to live with?

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This amazing 4th British Council ” Life Skills ” activity is about stereotypes, discrimination, racism, prejudice…

Definitions

Prejudice:

Attitudes or opinions about a person or group simply because the person belongs to a specific religion, race, nationality, or other group. Prejudices involve strong feelings that are difficult to change. Prejudice is pre-judging. A person who thinks, “I don’t want (name of group) living in my neighborhood,” is expressing a prejudice.

Discrimination:

When people act on the basis of their prejudices or stereotypes, they are discriminating. Discrimination may mean putting other people down, not allowing them to participate in activities, restricting their access to work or to live in certain neighborhoods, or denying them something they are entitled to by right and law.

Stereotype:

Oversimplified generalization about a group of people. When people say that all members of a specific nationality, religion, race or gender are “cheap,” “lazy,” “criminal” or “dumb,” they are expressing stereotypes. All groups have both cheap and generous individuals. All groups have individuals who commit crimes. To label an entire group based on the actions of some is to engage in stereotyping. Even when a stereotype is positive, such as when people in one racial group are thought to be superior athletes, the consequences of stereotyping are negative.

Scapegoating:

Blaming an individual or group when the fault actually lies elsewhere. Prejudicial attitudes and discriminatory acts can lead to scapegoating.

During this activity, I made sure that children understood  that prejudice and discrimination are unfair. I explained that, no person should be excluded or teased on the basis of race, religion, ethnicity, accent, gender, disability, sexual orientation, or appearance.

To start with:

Print the list of tenants (one for each student)
• We tell the story of the Miller family:
“Mr and Mrs Miller live fairly happily in a big house
with their 20-year-old son David. Then, upon their retirement,
Mr and Mrs Miller decide to move to the country.
David lives alone in the family home now and enjoys
a satisfying bachelor’s life until one day he loses his job.
David is no longer able to live alone in the big house.
He uses his last money to split the house into 6 flats and puts
a “For Rent” ad in the newspaper”

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Now, imagine you are David and have to choose 5 tenants from a list of people who have answered your ad, in order to be able to keep the house.
• We ask each student to pick 5 tenants from the list
• We ask groups of 5 or 6 students to pick 5 tenants
that the whole group agrees on
• We discuss the following issues:
• Did the group agree on a list of 5 tenants?
Yes/No? Why (not)?

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• How did the group work collectively in order to agree on the list of 5 tenants? What did they find hard about it and what easy?
• We discuss the reasons for which
they chose these particular people
• We discuss any potential bias that each one of us may have.
We explain that it is almost impossible not to be biased; what is most important is to understand that it is only bias and that talking about differences and getting to know other people better can change people’s views
List of tenants (for older students)
Who would you share the same house with?

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1. An unmarried mother with a 3-year-old child, whose father
is from Tunisia. He occasionally visits his son and sometimes brings around some friends.
2. A family of refugee workers from Pakistan with 5 children
aged 1 to 12. Their father works in a steel mill and their mother will take up the position of concierge at the house.
3. A family with a 17-year-old daughter in the final grade of Secondary School. The father is a bank accountant
and the mother a teacher.

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4. A single 70-year-old woman, living on a minimum pension.
5. A group of 7 refugees from Iraq who all work
in the kitchen of a large restaurant.
6. A group of 5 young people who live an alternative lifestyle,
by recycling and only consuming what they need to survive.
7. Three Palestinian students who are political activists,
and often demonstrate for their rights.

Orangito, our guest flat puppet from Spain, took part in all the group discussions!

Orangito, our guest flat puppet from Spain, took part in all the group discussions!

8. A Roma family with 5 members. The father only works occasionally and is otherwise unemployed. The family belongs
to a broader family which is very close and likes to have parties.
9. An American couple with no children. The wife works for the International Atomic Energy Authority
and the husband looks after the house and their 3 poodles.
10. Two artists, around 40, who lead an unconventional life
and have many artists as friends.

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11. A girl who studies the piano and singing at a conservatory,
and has to frequently practice in the evenings.
12. An African American with his Austrian partner.
He is trying to get a permit to work as an engineer.
13. A religious Muslim family which strictly follows the Quran.
The mother will only leave the house wearing a headscarf.
14. A young man in a wheelchair who lives
with his 76-year-old mother.
15. A blind girl living with her dog.
List of tenants (for younger students)
Who would you share the same house with?
1. An unmarried mother with a 3-year-old child.
2. A family of refugee workers from Pakistan
with 5 children aged 1 to 12. Their father
works in a steel mill
and their mother will take up the position of
concierge at the house.
3. A family with a 17-year-old daughter in the final grade of Secondary School. The father is a bank accountant
and the mother a teacher.
4. A single 70-year-old woman, living on a minimum pension.
5. A group of 7 refugees from Iraq who all work
in the kitchen of a large restaurant.
6. Three Palestinian students who are political activists,
and often demonstrate for their rights.
7. A Roma family with 5 members. The father only works occasionally and is otherwise unemployed. The family belongs
to a broader family which is very close and likes to have parties.
8. An American couple with no children. The wife works for the International Atomic Energy Authority and the husband looks after the house and 3 dogs.
9. Two artists, around 40, who have many artists as friends.
10. A girl who studies the piano and singing at a conservatory, and has to frequently practice in the evenings.
11. An African American with his Austrian partner.
He is trying to get a permit to work as an engineer.
12. A religious Muslim family which strictly follows the Quran.
The mother will only leave the house wearing a headscarf.
13. A young man in a wheelchair
who lives with his 76-year-old mother.
14. A blind girl living with her dog.

Our variation was: I asked them to play a game ,when we finished our project : they had to stand up when I read them a sentence with which they agreed or keep sitted when I read them a sentence with which they disagreed! eg. ” All Greeks are lazy”, ” All Roma are thieves” , ” All muslims are terrorists”…It was really interesting to see what there was in their minds  …Stereotypes were there…We have to work hard to get rid of them!

We finally  all agreed that, we should  come closer to  understand other people better !

According to recent studies, encouraging children’s critical thinking ability may be the best antidote to prejudice.

Of course,  all children notice differences. This is developmentally appropriate and, by itself, not a problem; but when negative values are attached to those differences, problems occur.

The students were asked to play a game: they had to stand up when they agreed with what was said or sit down if they disagreed!

The students were asked to play a game: they had to stand up when they agreed with what was said or sit down when they disagreed!

Life Skills-a British Council project: Activity 3-Every vote counts

 

Giving our letter to the Town Council President.

Giving our letter to the Town Council President.

Global Citizenship means that as citizens of the world, we have responsibilities to each other and to the Earth itself. Whether through sharing knowledge, volunteerism, advocacy or philanthropy, everyone, including young people, can make a difference.

I always tell my students: “Participate in the global community – take steps to make the world a better place for everyone”.

Our third activity, started a week before the Greek National Elections and it was a great chance for me to teach citizenship and democracy!

Our suggestions to the Mayor....a draft...

Our suggestions to the Mayor….a draft…

In this third activity:

Students  organise and take part in a voting process.
Students:
•  participate actively in various decision-making
and voting processes;
•  discuss what is fair and unfair in different situations,
and realise that justice is fundamental to any democratic society
• comprehend their role in society
Print the role cards.

Our class "town council" !

Our class “town council” !

• We explain that we will be using democratic
decision-making methods in this activity.
We read the following story to the students:
A citizens’ group has sent a letter to your city’s
Municipal Council stating that the atmospheric pollution
has risen dramatically in recent years, making life in the city unbearable. They are therefore asking for traffic arrangements to be made to reduce the atmospheric pollution.

A citizen is  talking to the Mayor about the problems our town has been facing!

A citizen is talking to the Mayor about the problems our town has been facing!

The Mayor organises a public consultation and invites the representatives of the citizens groups which who made the complaint, citizens who use vehicles in the city centre and disagree with the traffic arrangements, as proposed by the first group, and representatives of environmental organisations. During the public consultation, each group has the opportunity to present its arguments and propose any amendments that will then be put to the vote.
• We split the students into 4 groups. We give each group a role card which they are asked to read carefully and prepare a presentation of their arguments and statements/proposals that does not exceed 3 minutes.
• The Municipal Council group is then asked to initiate the process. We support the setting up of the debate and voting process, but let the students take initiatives and coordinate.

Brainstorming!

Brainstorming!

• As soon as the debate and voting have ended, we invite the group to discuss the following questions:
a) Do you believe that the voting during the roleplay
was fair and democratic?
b) Did you recognize any real life situations during this activity?
c) How are decisions of this nature usually taken?
Do children have the right to express
their opinion or make choices?
d) In your group, were decisions usually
taken democratically?
Why, or why not?

Working hard to find solutions to problems!

Working hard to find solutions to problems!

Municipal Council
You are the Organisers of the Public Consultation.
• Set up the venue for the Public Consultation
• Define the order of and time allocated to the speakers
• Keep notes of the proposed statements/proposals that will then be put to the vote. Remember that you will be voting for statements/proposals, not for groups or speakers!
• Try to group the statements/proposals
so that there is no repetition

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• Come up with some proposed statements/proposals
of your own, since you also have the right to voice your opinion
and vote as citizens of this town
• Remember! Everyone has the right to vote!
• Don’t forget that, as the Municipal Council, you want to satisfy the majority on the one hand, but are also under pressure from the European Union which, according to European regulations,
is asking for a reduction of pollutants in all European cities
Add your own arguments
and the statements/proposals you are proposing

Busy groups of citizens...

Busy groups of citizens…

Citizen representatives – Drivers:
• Getting around the city on foot is difficult
• Public transport is not satisfactory
• We pay taxes, so we can thus use the city with no restrictions
Add your own arguments
and the statements/proposals you are proposing:

At the town Council , before the meeting with the Mayor.

At the town Council , before the meeting with the Mayor.

Citizen representatives:
• There are several health problems affecting you and your children due to the atmospheric pollution
• Life in the city has become unbearable. There is too much traffic and you see cars everywhere. Parked vehicles even block the pavements.
• The cars’ horns and noise pollution bother you
Add your own arguments
and the statements/proposals you are proposing:
Representatives of environmental organisations:
• Life in the city has become unbearable
• The smog is causing respiratory problems
• Car use increases environmental pollution
Add your own arguments and the statements/proposals
you are proposing

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What we added to this project was:

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1. Each group wrote two different letters to the Mayor and Municipal Council: one with the problems our town citizens have  been facing and a second one later with all their suggestions about how  to solve each one of them! I wanted to show them that it is much easier just to mention what’s wrong or missing in life than find practical solutions to our problems working collaboratively!

At the town Council

At the town Council

2.We decided to write a real letter with our final suggestions after the elections  and hand them to our hometown  new  Mayor ! We talked with  the  Town Council president and attended a municipal council meeting, too!

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And here’s the Mayor’s reply letter!! We are so proud!!

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